Smartworking and Hardworking

Ini akibat sering pengangguran, ga ada kerjaan.. Alhasil saya jadi update akan info selebriti - selebriti yang sakit. Syahrini sakit kecapekan, Rafi Ahmad sakit typhus, Agnes Monica sakit punggung, dan Stella Amirta sakit jiwa *Eh!

Katanya mreka terlalu bekerja keras sampe kecapekan dan jatuh sakit. Baru saja dapat info dari mama, kalo papa juga sakit kecapekan karna kerja *mungkinkah papa mengikuti trend selebritis ini?!* eeeeehhhh.... Kenapa harus kerja sekeras itu sampe sakit? Apa yang mau diraih? Apakah mereka terlalu aktif dan tidak ada kata 'malas' di kamus mereka?

Berikut beberapa penelitian saya kepada orang - orang yang bekerja terlalu keras, pergi subuh dan pulang malam, dan mereka masuk dalam daftar orang sukses dalam kacamata saya.

• Eyang Buyut *interview di pabrik tua menggunakan jailangkung*

Eyang bekerja keras untuk keluarga besar, mengentaskan dari kemiskinan. (Kerja kerasnya sudah menjadikannya pengusaha rokok terbesar di Klaten, menjadikannya pengendara Rolls Royce pertama di Jawa Tengah)

• Seorang DPRD Jateng yang kebetulan masih saudara

Bekerja keras dari dan untuk rakyat!! *menurut pengamatan terakhir dia memutuskan meninggalkan kiprahnya menjadi pejabat yang sudah terlanjur kaya dengan menjadi peternak ayam dan berhasil memodali anak - anaknya untuk membuka bisnis clothing dan Event Organizer

• Seorang BIN dan kepala airport se-Indonesia yang kebetulan adalah 'my favourite uncle'

Hehehehe.... Buat apa ya? Buat keluarga itu pasti.. Sisanya buat kenalan ama cewek - cewek kece.. *dank!!

• Dosen saya semasa kuliah

Saya bekerja keras untuk menolong orang lain karena saya memiliki waktu 24 jam sehari untuk melakukan banyak hal berguna.. (Beliau hidup melajang, sudah memiliki sekolah, tempat ibadah, dan menerbitkan banyak buku agama Budha) *merasa tertampar seketika*

• Salah satu mantan boss saya yang glamor

Honey!! Christian Louboutin itu mahal!! I must work hard for it!!

Saya memutuskan untuk tidak melakukan interview sama papa, untuk menanyakan perjuangan kerja kerasnya. Karena pasti airmata ini akan menetes tanpa henti sebelum satu pertanyaanpun sempat terucap. Papa bekerja keras selama ini adalah untuk kebanggaan dirinya atas suatu pencapaiannya dalam Global Trading sebagai exportir furniture dan pastinya untuk menjauhkan anak anak dan istrinya dari ancaman kelaparan dan keterpurukan ilmu. Meski usahanya naik turun dan kembang kempis tapi dari usahanya, I'm proud to be her daughter with brain to think smart, to stay positive, to work my best, and to share with others :)

So, which figure that get you into hard and smart working life?

putih bersih tanpa noda

Seorang teman menumpahkan kekesalannya karena memergoki seorang suster memiliki skandal dengan seorang bapak. Dengan santainya saya menjawab... ' I hope they use condoms! '
Teman saya menanggapi dengan marah ' heh! Ini serius.. Ini tidak benar! Ini seharusnya tidak terjadi'
Saya: 'loh? Kenapa? Ini wajar... Skandal dimana - mana.. Ini semua kembali ke individu masing - masing ' *jawaban klise berupaya meredam kemarahan
Teman: 'Nggak!! Suster dengan jubah putih tidak boleh bernoda!!! '
Saya: 'kalau tidak bernoda tidak belajar! Jangan takut kotor *mengutip dari iklan detergent*'

Melihat gelagat teman saya memiliki idealisme tinggi yang tidak bisa diganggu gugat. Saya memilih candaan untuk meredam kemarahan.. Karena mungkin jika kami debat adu argumentasi, kami akan berakhir dalam peperangan.

Memang betul suster atau romo atau beberapa profesi lain yang memiliki komitmen kuat didepan publik untuk menjadi figur panutan atau contoh yang sempurna seharusnya mereka tidak melakukan hal bodoh semacam itu... Anyway! That's human... We can not escape from sin and dirts otherwise they should've been declared as God or Saint! Or Sane! Hehehehee

Kalau saya jadi teman saya itu, mungkin saya memilih untuk duduk tenang dan berpikir, kenapa harus saya yang melihat skandal itu. Mungkin alam semesta mau saya belajar dari noda yang dibuat oleh suster dan bapak itu untuk lebih menguatkan saya ketika memegang sebuah komitmen... *sejenak melirik kepada komitmen diet saya beberapa bulan lalu dan tetap saja saya langgar*

Selain itu, kenapa harus susah susah mengisi pikiran saya dengan kebencian dan kemarahan. Itu urusan suster dan bapak itu kepada Tuhan.. Hanya saja kebetulan teman saya memergoki adegan syur itu :) so, if one day they got caught on their scandal, there must be some learning process they should be in and I wish my friend can learn from that scandal too without committing in it...

♥I'm a Public Relations.... Living It Loving It!!! ♥

In 2008, I started my career as a Public Relations in a five-star international chain hotel in Yogyakarta.
Choosing this career was a damn-exciting journey I ever had. I studied for being an English Teacher in which a doubt myself in becoming a teacher but somehow I love English Language and found it easy to learn. So, soon after graduated... I swore to myself that I will find another job beside being a teacher.

From reading many sources, I found that Public Relations was quite interesting, so I bought some books related to it and learnt from it. I made applications letter to companies for Public Relations (PR) positions ignoring I had no experience in it. Luckily, this hotel accept my applications and giving me a chance to learn about this profession.

With my truthful heart to learn, working my ass-off all day long, learning from more sources, dealing with my best-scary boss I ever had (now she is a very successful young woman who work as a PR Director in a palace where Michael Jackson spent his time to learn about Moslem before he died). I did some speaker note activity, I did jurying some PR competition, I taught PR in tourism study for post-graduate students in university.

Once I thought I lost my career path as I resigning, for I couldn't cope my personal matters and did my job at the same time. Now, after having leisure time for a year, doing some stuff with families, building my confidence, fight to live my life to the ultimate I can be, learn from failure, building my better personalities, curing my pain and so much more. Now, I proudly said to myself, I have just grabbing my life back!! I got my career back as a PR Manager in 5-star hotel in Yogyakarta and I'm ready to meet the challenges and experience every single beat of this job!!

Thank you for my dearest big Daddy, lovely Mom, Dad, Bro, Best of Friends, and all of you who keep on motivating me to keep moving on and keeping my head up!! I love you all....

Quote of The Day : Man Jadda Wajada

Barangsiapa yang bersungguh - sungguh pasti sukses

- taken from a novel 'Negeri 5 Menara' - 

No Strings Attached

you give me Premature Ventricular Contraction

- Emma's Valentine Greeting to Adam - 

It was about last year when my brother told me that I should find sex buddies instead of lover. He got this worst-best advise after watching this movie but I had no idea before that this movie bringing him in to it. Well, yesterday I saw its trailer on Itunes and planned to watch it. 

if only my sex-buddy would be as sexy as him

Three things I like the most from this movie are, the actor and actress, it is of course the sexy Kutcher and Portman. The story is what reasoning to finish this movie until end, it is simply a story of a girl and guy who don't believe in love and choose to be sex partner instead, somehow it's simply that we don't pick to whom we fall in love with, it's just happen as it's should be. The last, I love the special-romantic ways of this story. It seems awkward at first, but it is trully a kind of act that I like the most such as when Emma (Natalie Portman) gives a Val's card to Adam written 'you give me premature ventricular contraction' which in medical dictionary means a heartbeat that is not normal (read: fall in love symptoms). I also like when Adam (Ashton Kutcher) give Emma a 'period mix tracks' - a CD song compilation that best to be listened during period. The best part is when Emma tells Adam to not to give flower and in return Adam gives Emma a bucket of Carrots with ribbon. :)

Quote of The Day : Biggest Mistake

my biggest mistake is falling too hard for you

- stella amirta -

Someone Like You

I heard
That you're settled down
That you
Found a girl
And you're
Married now

I heard
That your dreams came true.
Guess she gave you things
I didn't give to you

Old friend
Why are you so shy?
Ain't like you to hold back
Or hide from the light

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it.
I had hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded
That for me it isn't over

Never mind
I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
"Don't forget me," I begged
"I'll remember," you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead."
Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead,
Yeah.

You know how the time flies
Only yesterday
It was the time of our lives
We were born and raised
In a summer haze
Bound by the surprise
Of our glory days

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it.
I had hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded
That for me it isn't over.

Never mind
I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
"Don't forget me," I begged
"I'll remember," you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead."

Nothing compares
No worries or cares
Regrets and mistakes
They are memories made.
Who would have known
How bittersweet this would taste?

Never mind
I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
"Don't forget me," I begged
"I'll remember," you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead"

Never mind
I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
"Don't forget me," I begged
"I'll remember," you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead"

Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead 

Rupasampat Wahyabiantara

I was sitting in a spa lounge in Bali last year. Questioning about how many kinds of beauty treatments offered in this world promising an ultimate beauty. Here I found the truth, Rupasampat Wahyabiantara.

a balance beauty depicted in Dewi Saraswati, a goddess of woman perfection. The harmony of beauty in soul, physical, heart, and mind. Dewi Saraswati was pictured with hands holding tasbih symbolising spiritual life, siter reflects wisdom of words in communication and respected attitude, flowers symbolising a woman beauty, and lontar leaf depicting knowledge. Besides, Saraswati is always pictured standing still above a lotus to show how strong and unable be influenced by bad things surround.

a patience to be patient

I am a "now-child" living in an "instant-life" in which, we can eat noodles in 3-minutes, we can send mail in second, I can phone someone no matter where he is, I can make coffee in 2-minutes, and I want things quickly be done. I want it NOW, without a thing called WAITING!

www.jocobbett.com
(in every of my desperation, I always imagine myself
sitting in a bench with God sitting next to me
 whom I can chat with and feel relieved)

Then, I grow up impatiently......

Those days of troubles, I complain to God for no solutions, for no answers right away, for none of His presence I can embrace. Until in desperation, I mumble for, "Dear God, what took it so long for this pain go away, what took You so long answering my questions, why is it so difficult for me to hug You just to ensure myself that You're existed!!!" ...... The more Why, What, When, Who, Where, and How that I want to ask Him... the farther away my relations toward Him.

Until the day, my auntie made her call, she told me to read a passage of bible, she said, "Dear, God answers your worries even decades ago before you raise those questions, why should we complaining?!"

Then I read the daily bible reading on May 14, 2011 entitled "Patience to be Patient", from Psalm 130: 1-8 'I wait for the Lord, my soul waits, and in His word I do hope.' Here I can say, many prayers in the Bible come out of the act of waiting. Jacob waited 7 years for a wife and then worked 7 more after being tricked by her father. Israelities waited 4 centuries for deliveriance. Now, I pray for the patience to endure times of trial, to keep anticipating, keep hoping, keep believing. I pray for patience to be patient. (By Philip Yancey)

Those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, thay shall walk and not faint. - isaiah 40:31-

.: ost. "in Christ Alone" from Owl City:. thanks to my dearest Lil Brother for sending me this song! I love you!!! 

Cinta Bertepuk Sebelah Kelamin

Tiba - tiba ada broadcast message masuk ke Blackberry saya: "susahnya cari pacar jaman sekarang, 30% gay, 30% nya lagi pasangan gay, 20% udah punya pacar, 10% lagi ngegebet pasangan, 10 %nya lagi masih sekolah dan belum mapan." Seketika saya tergelak..
Tapi mungkin ini adalah salah satu jawaban paling tepat, kenapa saya masih single dan sibuk dengan karir. Susahnyaaaaaa nyari pasangan akhir - akhir ini... hihihihi....

Memang betul saya sekarang hidup di gay-era dimana kehidupan gay mulai dipublikasikan meski masih banyak menimbulkan pro dan kontra. Apalagi kalau ngomongin soal cinta dan gay, banyak banget interpretasi dan pendapat yang harus disimak dan dipahami baik - baik.

Ketika kehidupan gay sudah jadi trend, otomatis falsafah cinta pun juga memiliki trend baru. Kalau dulu kita kenal dan terluka hanya karena istilan cinta bertepuk sebelah tangan, kalo sekarang kita harus siap mental dengan nasib cinta bertepuk sebelah kelamin.

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Hari ini seorang teman menunjukkan foto kecengannya selama 12 tahun lamanya. Pengen juga teriak "bego banget sih mau - maunya ngecengin cowok ampe 12 tahun!!" Tapi, waktu dia menyodorkan foto kecengannya itu, Seketika saya komentar, "so sorry dear, he is absolutely a gay denial!" ..... Pupus sudah harapan teman saya itu, dan harus saya akui... Baru saja dia mengalami apa itu yang namanya .... Cinta bertepuk sebelah kelamin!!

Today's Show : stop-motion animated!!

all I love is stop-motion animated series of Shaun the Sheep, 

Bob the Builder, and Postman Pat...

Today, making my leisure time seem wonderful, 

I plan to watch these series....

Bob the Builder

Postman Pat

Shaun the Sheep

Wish of the day : If Love, Love is

I wish love is like a baby shampoo. 

Because it has "no more tears" formula.

www.baby-bathtime.com

Pajamas Party

This party is usually for teenagers to have a sleepover gathering in which they dressed up in pajamas and have fun things to do like gossiping, doing make up, watching movie, and so on... here, look at these cute buddies having their own Pajamas Party at school!

PreSchool Pajamas Party

Stretching up

Nursery Class in Pose

We learn how to wash handkerchief

then to dry them

Stretching up in Style

Still Sleepy

 

Move your body

Here! we put our make up on

we paint our faces too

I think I'm a cat

Kekacauan Kicauan

Huh, ini gara - gara pesan yang ditulis Mbak Ti semalam soal cuplikan Kicau Kacau dari penulis galau Indra Herlambang...

Now, I'm dying to read the book after.

Sebenernya buku ini berisi curahan hati Indra Herlambang dalam sebuah jejaring yang merupakan inspirasi dari kicauan burung, yang karena penulisnya sendiri konyol, jadi penasaran gimana isi curcolnya di buku ini... Apalagi Mbak Ti udah heboh aja ketawa ketiwi semalaman baca buku itu... Sungguhhh terlaluuuu!

Mana dunia jejaring ini sempat saya gandrungi beberapa waktu lalu, namun akhirnya saya tinggalkan. Selain karena cukup menyita waktu saya dengan melihat - lihat status orang - orang juga emosi saya yang kurang dewasa membuat saya heboh sendiri kalau liat status orang - orang yang saya ngga suka, ketawa ketiwi sendiri liat status kecengan, dan lainnya. Padahal saya ini cukup konyol kalau bikin heboh di jejaring yang satu ini.

Akhirnya saya mulai meninggalkan jejaring ini ketika bencana Merapi waktu itu. Kebetulan saya merantau dan hanya bisa melihat update beritanya secara online dan dari jejaring ini. Mulai emosi ketika baca komentar - komentar pengguna jejaring ini dan beberapa reporter yang kurang bijaksana. Rasanya saya pingin teriak, "Just throw that d**n Blackberry and stop twitting, do something!!!" Waktu menceritakan ini dengan seorang teman dekat, ternyata dia memberi nasihat yang baik, bahwa apa yang saya lihat di timeline itu kurang objective dan mungkin kebetulan jaringan saya kurang luas, karena jejaring ini sangat berguna sekali dalam koordinasi penyaluran bantuan dan pemberitaan situasi Merapi saat itu. Thank God, I got a friend like him *kiss kiss

Ternyata, banyak sisi kehidupan yang bisa kita telaah ya .... apapun itu pasti ada sisi negatif dan positifnya juga. Jejaring ini juga berhasil mendekatkan saya dengan banyak orang.. sekaligus menjauhkan saya dari beberapa orang juga yang salah membuat judgment mengenai kepribadian saya melalui status – status saya *tapi akhirnya setelah melalui press conference my best friend understand not to judge me only from my status Well after all.... I might just go lay down and listening to birds tweeting around the playground at school! real bird :)

Does tweeting really reflect our personalities? 

Or is it just another mask we put on to face the world?

Me Vs. Ayu Dewi

Me! 

Been not checking any infotainment news until I received message from a friend sometime ago "you're luckier than her as she was dumped a week before they got married!" I know Ayu Dewi as she is a very fun presenter and truly a sanguine person. Once I met her when we came in an event in Yogyakarta and she is really smart and nice person.


More messages coming "Hey! check out... chin up girl.. look Ayu Dewi never give up on love", "I heart Ayu Dewi for she is so strong! you go girl", "you should learn from Ayu Dewi.... "... bla bla bla... Ayu Dewi this and Ayu Dewi that. I got so curious and started to googling for her news..... and I cried reading her statements.

Ayu Dewi of course!

She is admitting that she is sad and disappointed, somehow she would be strong for her parents and all person who love her surround. Some of her statements are encouraging me to live my life... she said "we live, we learn, we move forward", "one day I'm sure that I will be a great wife and my children will see me as a strong woman." As a sanguine person, she always look so funny answering media interview and how she face her problems show how smart and grateful she is also how strong she is to move on!!


Well.. Ayu Dewi!!! I heart you and proud of you!!!


Some links to her news!:

• i will not give up on love
• http://id.news.search.yahoo.com/search/news?p=ayu+dewi&ei=UTF-8

Life as we Know It

Kind of light movie I love to watch during weekend.... romantic drama comedy complete with handsome actor(according my point of view) and some "life learning message"... :D
I watched this on last Friday night and of course.. to have my VVIP private theatre all I must do was to buy some food and drink, arrange my bed as comfy as it can be, pampering my black MacBook to be cooperate working during movie playtime....... and Voila!!! Movie Time!!!

Fergie!! you are just tooooooo lucky to be loved by this
sexy, naughty looking guy... huks!!

All I learned from this movie is about fate and soulmate... Sometimes we perceive life as what we wanted and once it doesn't please us, we complain to everything....  Somehow, in best way.. Life is just as we never know how it was planned to be and the important thing is to believe that it is everything in life good for us :) Oh ya!! my favourite part is the soundtrack!! check out... 

Faith Hill " All I ever wanted "

Opened up my heart 

Start to feel again 

Take another step 

Now I understand 

All the time I waited 

All my faded plans 

Every single tragedy was leading up to 

someone that loves me like you 

In a world full of broken promises 

You were my portrait of truth 

And suddenly I confessed 

All I ever wanted 

All I ever wanted 

All I ever wanted 

Was you 

All I ever wanted 

All I ever needed 

was you 

It took a little pain 

Why would I believe it 

All I ever needed was you 

Open up my eyes 

Finally I'm seeing it 

All I ever wanted 

All I ever needed 

was you 

I ignored the stars 

Each and every day 

Don't give them credit because 

All they ever did was bring me pain 

Waited for a love 

I didn't have a name 

You could call me crazy 

But it's all that I had to keep me safe 

And what if the darkness comes alive 

and I feel like I'm staring at the sun 

The shallow weak hush feels so right 

It took so many wrongs to find the right 

It took a little pain 

Why would I believe it 

All I ever needed was you 

Open up my eyes 

Finally I'm seeing it 

All I ever wanted 

All I ever needed 

was you 

I played a part 

Acting like I knew just who you are 

Traded every day that I can love 

Anyone but you